erotic stories for punjabi widows

Right after I moved to Singapore, I was browsing a bookstore and found a section of works by local authors, one of which was Sugarbread by Balli Kaur Jaswal. I bought it then, but of course I haven’t read it yet! A friend of mine here is a fan of Jaswal, and she picked up her latest book Erotic Stories for Punjabi Widows and recently loaned it to me. Edited from the book jacket:

When Nikki takes a creative writing job at her local temple, she’s shocked to discover a group of barely literate women who have no interest in her ideas. These are women who have spent their lives in the shadows of fathers, brothers, and husbands, but whose inner lives are as rich and fruitful as their untold stories. As they begin to open up to each other about womanhood, sexuality, and the dark secrets within the community, Nikki realizes that the illicit nature of the class may place them all in danger. East meets West and tradition clashes with modernity in a thought-provoking, cross-cultural novel that might make you look again at the women in your life.

There was a lot I liked about this book. It’s a little bit fluffy (not usually my jam) and took me a little while toget into, but at around the one-third mark it hit a stride for me when the characters started feeling more distinct. It has a lot of things going on, but each theme is necessary to creating this world for the reader: race, age, community, family, friendship, personal autonomy, traditional versus modern lifestyle, and how these all relate, involve, and effect women within Erotic Stories‘s setting: the Sikh community in Southall, London. I loved the titular widows—they were sassy and fun and I enjoyed seeing their bonding and empowerment by the end.

My minor criticisms would involve spoilers, so I’ll refrain here, but I will say they didn’t dampen my overall enjoyment of the book. Erotic Stories succeeds for me in that it opened up a new cultural perspective on feminism in a part of the world and with a group of people to which I new. I appreciated the loan and I look forward to getting around to Sugarbread eventually!

Read in September 2017.

st. patrick’s day

st pats imageHappy St. Patrick’s Day! I’ve never been one to go all-out and get crazy drunk on this holiday, rather I like to celebrate my heritage and family and the music and food of Ireland.

The last couple of days I’ve been listening to my Irish music playlist which includes Van Morrison, the Chieftains, and Danú, among others. I had a great time at Hozier‘s concert last month at Liberty Hall, and though he doesn’t play traditional Irish music he is from Bray, County Wicklow! But recently I’ve been revisiting Danú a lot because they just played a concert in Wisconsin last Friday, which my parents attended. I really enjoyed its concert here in Kansas City a few years ago: read my review at KCMetropolis.org. If you have a chance today, check it out on youtube!

I also like to reflect on Irish history, either by watching a film or documentary or reading some articles. Last year I was captivated by the “Potato” chapter in Michael Pollan’s The Botany of Desire, which outlined the Potato Famine in Ireland in the mid-nineteenth century, resulting in the tidal wave of Irish immigration to the United States. Here’s a great (fairly short) article from Common Dreams about the famine, bringing up some thought-provoking questions and touching on how it compares today globally and economically.

Kansas City is rich with Irish ancestry an we like to celebrate it well beyond March 17! I highly recommend stopping by the Kansas City Irish Center in Union Station, open year-round, and spending Labor Day weekend at the Kansas City Irish Fest. Both are great fun, and full of culture and history. The festival hosts several bands and of course has Irish food and drink on tap! We also have a pretty epic parade for St. Patrick’s Day, but I just can’t bring myself to take a vacation day off work to go see it. It’ll fall on a weekend, eventually!

Speaking of food, on Sunday I made my annual “Irish Feast”: shepherd’s pie and soda bread. I used freshly ground lamb from Local Pig for the pie, and (because I’m from Wisconsin) I did add cheese (not authentic, I know) but it was Kerrygold cheddar and Dubliner, at least! I also have Kerrygold butter for the soda bread 🙂 Maybe later I’ll dip into the store to pick out one of these Irish beers listed on Thrillist.

irish food

Lastly, I’m currently reading a book set (mostly) in Ireland, by an Irish author: TransAtlantic by Colum McCann. I’ve had my eye on Nora Webster by Colm Tóibín since it came out last fall, he’s been on my radar ever since I read his Brooklyn a few years ago.

I hope you are enjoying a fine St. Patrick’s Day! Sláinte!